could you really...
FIX YOUR RELATIONSHIP PROBLEMS IN 7 WEEKS OR LESSeven if youā€™re the only one trying?
You need help that get results
...if this has been building for months, maybe even years...
...if you're not sure what to try, or nothing has worked...
It can feel like a prison, a trap, a torture you never expected and don't know how to fix.
It can seem hopeless...
BUT...
The good news is that there *IS* something you can do about it.
EVEN IF if your partner is resistant to change or getting help!
Now let me share with you some crucial insights and skills necessary to save your marriage...
Insights to Save Your Marriage
I. Stresses causes changes
There probably was a time when things were great between the two of you: playful, easy-going, fun, passionate.
You couldn't wait to see each other, to touch each other, to love each other.
But over time stresses build up that often drive us apart and even change us, stresses like demanding careers, children, financial losses and even health issues.
We can become distant. Demanding. Judgmental. Argumentative. Cold.
Even cruel.
And even if NONE of that happens, it's common to develop new interests, hobbies and even political views that can come between and leave you feeling like you don't recognize each other anymore.
We ALL change over time.
You've got to recognize stressors, give grace and grow together.
II. Men and women are different
Not all men are the same and not all women are the same, but men and women are definitely different.
More and more science is showing that the genes and hormones which distinguish us as male and female are ALSO responsible for US communicating differently, seeing the world differently, and needing different things for fulfillment and happiness.
If you're a man it's important to spend time in strength, action and decisiveness, as well as taking care of your woman and showing her adoration.
If you're a woman it's important to spend time nurturing and healing, as well as taking care of your man and being receptive to his affection.
Of course, there are additional needs that we have as unique personalities. Its crucial to understand your needs as well as your partner's needs and make sure that those needs are fulfilled.
III. You train your partner how to treat you
Without even realizing it you've probably "trained" your partner that certain things are OK even if they drive your crazy or even infuriate you.
Because, unless there are consequences, people will keep doing whatever they want to do.
Perhaps you think you're being loving or patient by not making a bigger deal about the things which both you, but over time they WILL drive you apart and destroy your marriage.
This isn't about yelling or making empty threats, it's about being very clear that certain behaviors are not OK with you and that, if they keep doing them, there will be consequences.
To change your partner's behavior you must be clear, let them know what will happen, and follow through.
IV. You need to risk rejection to save your marriage
If marriage was always easy then there'd be no need for committing to that whole "for better or for worse" part! But listen to me: God does NOT want you to suffer in a marriage of pain!
Perhaps you’ve been taught that divorce is not an option, or you've been taught to just "take it", or you're afraid of their temper or don't want to be alone.
You need to be forgiving and understanding, but remember that it's a two-way street, because marriage is sacred and a space for love.
You ALSO need to stand up for your love, stand in the fire and do what's necessary to strengthen your love.
Standing up can require confidence and courage.
Confidence that you’ll be OK and will always have love.
Courage to risk their anger, their threats, even the relationship itself.
Yes, that’s easier said than done. But confidence, courage and self-love can be learned.
Skills to Save Your Marriage
Listen, marriage is probably the most challenging thing you'll ever do.
I've started businesses, gotten fancy diplomas, even studied rocket science, and nothing (I repeat nothing) is as complex or challenging as keeping a marriage working.
The key is to be prepared, to know the likely challenges and develop the skills to handle them, the same as you would for your business or education.
Some of the key skills necessary include:
- Communicating to be understood
- Defusing conflicts
- Negotiation
- Collaborating as a team
- Fulfilling your partner's unspoken needs
And that's on top of life skills that become more important when you're married, skills like:
- Time management
- Money management
- Stress management
There's a lot there, but I can help you every step of the way so that you can get out of pain and back into love.
Hi, I'm Guy Ardito MS...
and for over 15 years I've helped bring couples back together.
Because I lived through the pain of my parent's bitter, epic divorce.
Because I saw so many of my friends' and cousins' marriages fall apart.
Because I rescued my own marriage from the brink of divorce.
IMAGINE...
Enjoying time together.
Being appreciated for all you do.
Working through disagreements without fights or yelling.
Being respected and listened to.
Feeling loved and desired, the way you used to.
Knowing that no matter what happens in your marriage you have the tools, wisdom and strength to handle it.
Waking up every morning with a smile, knowing that you're building a future together.
You CAN have that! (and so, so much more)
Welcome to "Revive Your Relationship"
"Revive Your Relationship" is a convenient, online program developed specifically for smart, busy people like you who would rather restore the love than go through a divorce.
“Revive Your Relationship” gets results. The lessons are designed to be short enough for your busy life, easy to understand and full of very, very powerful tools to get you feeling better fast.
What you'll learn:
- Stop any Fight dead in its tracks. There is a proven model for changing your partner's behavior (really ANYONE'S behavior). L
- Reconnect and Enjoy Time Together There is a proven model for changing your partner's behavior (really ANYONE'S behavior). L
- Communicate to get what you want There is a proven model for changing your partner's behavior (really ANYONE'S behavior). L
- Change Your Partner's annoying behavior. There is a proven model for changing your partner's behavior (really ANYONE'S behavior). Learn the theory and strategy along with specific tips to apply to your relationship.
- Restore the Romance and Passion dd
- Recognize Medical Conditions that affect behavior How to recognize signs of anxiety, depression and other conditions that might be behind your partner's behavior AND what you can do about it.
- Overcome fear and build the self-belief necessary to know your worth and stand up for your own needs in the relationship. With courage and confidence the world will respond to you, and you'll feel better inside.
- Find your joy even in the most difficult and stressful circumstances. Learn to connect with your OWN happiness and fulfillment regardless of what your husband says or does. With this power you can overcome hopelessness & frustration, show your husband he doesn't have power over you AND give him a powerful motivator to clean up his act.
The training starts as soon as you sign up and you'll enjoy LIFETIME access to the recorded lessons.
For eight weeks you'll have access to me during live Q&A sessions and via email - plus handy templates, checklists and bonus resources to make your progress as swift and effortless as possible.
Your training will be delivered by me, Guy Ardito MS CMC. For over 15 years I've helped couples turn around difficult situations and get their relationship back on track.
What You'll Get
- Video-based training High-impact, cutting-edge lessons you can watch (and re-watch) wherever, whenever you want, covering everything I do in live private sessions, LIFETIME access: (Value $997)
- Private email access to me during the eight weeks of the program (Value $197)
- Exercises and printable hand-outs for each section. (Value $50)
- Copy of my book "Debug Your Love Life"
- Eight LIVE Q&A Group Calls (Value $397)
That's OVER $1,000 of value, but you can have it all for just $497.
Why? To make this totally irresistible, because I want you to get this help and turn your relationship around, turn your love around, and create the life you deserve.
BONUSES
Bonus #1: Eight ADDITIONAL weeks of email support (Value $197)
Bonus #1: Personality and conflict style assessments for you and your partner (Value $500)
Bonus #2: - Four Private 30-minute phone or Skype session with me to answer any questions and cover anything about yourself or your relationship (Value $500)
"You literally saved my marriage. Thank you so, so much!"
Tammy and Jim Lyons
"I was at the end of my rope; you helped me understand my husband and rebuild our love BETTER than before!"
Gabriela and Rafael deLuca
"I'd given up hope and was so depressed. Thank God we found you! Guy, I can't thank you enough for helping us!"
James and Monica Oveido
Want to join them and create your own success story?
I'd love to welcome you into the Marriage Makeover program. But first, let me tell you a very quick story about the price of marriage help and divorce.
Divorce is very, very expensive. You can count on paying $6,000 or more for legal fees, plus the pain of splitting assets, and possibly having to move out of your house, the stress and (if you have them) the impact on your children.
Marriage Therapy ain't cheap, either: typically $150 per session (sometimes double or triple that depending on where you live), and it isn't covered by insurance. And, most couples see a therapist once per week for at least six months. That's a whopping $3,600. Worst of all, while some couples get relief many do not.
Plus the incovenience of getting to the therapist's office, which can also mean having to pay for a babysitter.
Meanwhile...
Other online programs for marriage cost between $297 and $697 but include very little live time with the coach, trainer or therapist and no 1:1 time.
And 1:1 time is essential to understanding your particular challenge and giving you the customized support and guidance you need to get your marriage back on track.
Worst of all, studies show that very few people even complete these courses, typically out of frustration because (again) they don't get 1:1 support and understanding.
Bottom line: most people don't get the help they need because they feel it's too expensive, or it won't work, or both.
My "Marriage Makeover" is different.
The "Marriage Makeover" gives you personalized guidance at a very, very affordable price.
After going through the Marriage Makeover you may decide that you want a series of private sessions. So when you buy the Marriage Makeover I'll give you a special discount AND I'll even credit you the Marriage Makeover purchase price as a special "thank you". :)
Got questions? Great! I've got answers.
How do I know this will work for me?
Because to do this, you need three things:
1. A desire to have your marriage work
2. A proven system to get your marriage back on track
3. Coaching to help you implement that system
You supply the desire; I've got you covered on the proven system and the coaching.
The Marriage Makeover program will work for anyone who has had enough but doesn't want to give in to divorce.
Right now, you don't have a model for getting your husband back to being the loving man you committed to — but I'm going to give it to you, proven to work with couples from a wide range of backgrounds. Right now, you're on your own — but in this program I'll be there for you with live calls and email to help and support you for six whole weeks. And right now, you can't see a clear path back to love — but the Marriage Makeover program will help you see daylight and recognize successes that build on each other until you get your marriage back on track.
What are the live class dates and times?
The live class schedule is November 28 at 1 pm EST, Dec 6 at 3 pm EST, Dec 14 at 7 pm EST, and Dec 28 and 3 pm EST.
What if I can't attend all of the live classes? Will there be recordings?
Yes, there will be recordings in case you miss a live session. But you'll want to attend the live sessions as much as possible so you can participate and, if you like, get additional 1:1 help from me.
What if I don't like technology?
No problem! You'll be able to access all of the lessons through your web browser, even on your smart phone!
What's the payment plan option?
If you'd like to spread the cost of this training, you can choose to make 3 monthly payments of $197 instead of a single payment of $497.
It's not the best time for me.
Can I just wait and join next time instead?
This is the first time I'm offering this new program, and I don’t know when (or even if) there will be a second time. It’s also possible that if I do offer it again in the future, the price may be higher than it is today.
So if you're interested in the program, you really should join.
I'm absolutely committed to your success, so if you have any questions or concerns just write to me at [email protected].
Here's a quick reminder of what you'll get in the Marriage Makeover:
- 6 weeks of both pre-recorded and live online training, Q&A sessions, email access and workshops with Guy Ardito MS CMC.
- Access to live session recordings for the duration of the program
- A proven model for changing your husband's behavior and getting your marriage back on track
- Useful checklists, time-saving templates, and other bonus resources to make your progress toward marriage magic quicker and easier
- Personalized, expert advice from Guy Ardito to help you understand apply the strategies to your unique circumstances
- All the knowledge and step-by-step guidance you need to change your husband and turn your marriage around.
Ready to join us? Donā€™t get left out!
Just click the button and enroll yourself in the program, and I'll start sending you student information to prepare for the November 20 kickoff!
Your investment to join is only $197 (or 3 payments of $77). But there's something you should know that's more important than the price:
Enrollment in the "Marriage Makeover" is on a 'first come, first served' basis until I reach my limit of 50 students — so if you're interested in joining the program, don't wait too long, because I don't know how quickly these 50 spots will sell out.
See you inside...
I'm excited to walk you step by step through the process that will put *you* in control of your marriage, and get back to the loving, respectful, supportive relationship you desire.
The registration window closes at midnight on Monday, November 20. So take a moment to think it over, and if you'd like to join us, we're very glad to welcome you into the Marriage Makeover program!
P.S. If you want to move forward and get back to love *fast*, instead of staying stuck as you are right now... then this is your opportunity to make it happen, with expert help and support from me.
But bear in mind there are only 50 spots available in the Marriage Makeover, and if they all get filled early, we'll close the doors when the 50th spot is gone. I'd hate for you to miss this opportunity just because you clicked the signup button a little too late...