Hi, I'm Guy Ardito MS CMC, and I help smart, busy people just like you repair, renew, and invigorate their love.
Why? Because I've always been fascinated what brings people together, what makes them happy and what keeps them together.
And my parents' epic divorce (and I do mean epic) set me on a journey to learn everything I could to make sure that never happened to me.
Anyone can get married, but...
Staying married and feeling happy are where the rubber really meets the road.
(and the rubber SURE met the road for us!)
What we were facing....
Just like you, me and the missus had to deal with all the "normal" things couples argue over like
- and where to vacation.
We also had some (ahem) other differences of opinion:
- She love cheese and I prefer pastry
- She's a busy-bee and I like to relax
- She needs the shade and I love the sun (fun fact: I gave in and let her keep the blinds down in the bedroom)
But we also faced bigger problems and darker times, problems like:
- a chronic pain condition
- nearly losing our baby
- raising a special-needs toddler
- dealing with a devastating business setback
- a grueling 18-month search for a home
- and starting a new business
ALL at the SAME TIME.
We got off-track...
I'll tell you straight: we both wondered if we'd made a mistake.
There were times our faith faltered.
We were exhausted, confused, stressed-out, angry.
We each felt alone, and sometimes even depressed.
Have you ever been there?
We got stuck in a cycle of anger and avoidance: the more we fought the more time she spent with the baby and avoided me, which got me angry so she withdrew more, and the cycle just got worse and worse.
"Divorce" was even brought up.
Yet today we're happier than ever! Really.
How we rebuilt our marriage
We learned how to:
- Appreciate our differences to work as a team.
- Fulfill each other's deepest needs.
- Communicate so we could understand each other.
- Negotiate to get to those "win/win" decisions
- Inject polarity to create intense attraction and intimacy.
Helping people just like you find and, more importantly, keep love is the most gratifying thing I do.
Join me in my group trainings or private coaching.
Life is an adventure, live in love!
Click here if you'd like some of that for yourself.
I help smart, successful men and women find love and repair their relationships. My twenty years of coaching experience has focused on relationships and communication and includes certification from luminaries such as Dr. Cloe Madanes, Drs. Les and Leslie Parrott, Anthony Robbins, Doug O'Brien, Landmark Education and the New York Center for NLP.