How to Handle a Difficult Husband

...if this has been building for months, maybe even years...

...if your partner is resistant to change or getting help...

But you're not sure what to do, or nothing you tried worked.

It can feel like a prison, a trap, a torture you never expected and don't know how to fix.

It can seem hopeless...

BUT...

The good news is that there *IS* something you can do about it.

How can you know when to give your partner the grace of acceptance and unconditional love, and when to “push back”?

 Here are some guidelines:

 1. Physical abuse can never be tolerated and you *must* contact local counselors, including the police, if your husband is harming you.

 2. Verbal abuse is *never* acceptable.  Never, ever let your partner insult or disrespect you.  Whenever that happens you must immediately let them know it’s unacceptable.

 3. If they grow distant or argumentative then you can give them a few weeks to see if it passes, but if it continues past then you must bring the behavior up to them in loving but firm way.

You *must* own your power, let them know there will be consequences, and stand up for your own needs.

Perhaps you’ve been taught that divorce is not an option.

Perhaps you've been taught to just "take it".

Perhaps you're afraid of your husband’s temper or threats.

God does NOT want you to be taken advantage of or abused!  Marriage is sacred and a space for love.  We need to be forgiving and understanding, but remember that it's a two-way street.

Standing up to your husband can require confidence and courage.

Confidence that you’ll be OK and will always have love.

Courage to risk their anger, their threats, even the relationship itself.

Yes, that’s easier said than done.

But confidence, courage and self-love can be learned.

And it is possible to change your husband's behavior.

Hi, I'm Guy Ardito MS CMC, the founder and CEO at Marriage Magic.  My greatest fulfilment comes from bringing couples back together, especially those who feel that their love is un-fixable.

Why?
Because I lived through the pain of my parent's bitter, epic divorce.
Because I saw so many of my friends' and family's marriages fall apart.
Because I rescued my own marriage from the brink of divorce.

For over 15 years I've focused on helping couples repair their marriages and fall back in love.

Unfortunately, most of the advice out there is based on the false belief that "people don't change".  So you get left with two bad options: endure the pain of a bad marriage or go through the pain of divorce.

Neither of those are good.

When you're not getting along and you believe that people won't change then you're left feeling tricked or confused, because if people don't change how did you not notice THIS when you tied the knot?

Not every couple should stay together.  

I never recommend couples endure ongoing pain simply because of a belief in the sacrament of marriage.

But all couples DO face real challenges at some point, and most of the relationships can get back on track with the right tools and techniques.

Let me say it again: everyone changes.

And while you can't "snap your fingers" and have your husband instantly transform...
You CAN influence them to change for the better after you've learned the correct principles and techniques.

I know because they've helped other couples.
I know because they're how I saved my own marriage.

...Being respected and listened to.

...Being appreciated for all you do.

...Feeling loved and desired, the way you used to.

...Knowing that no matter what happens in your marriage you have the tools, wisdom and strength to handle it.

...Waking up every morning with a smile on your face, knowing that you're building a future together again.

...Seeing for certain: You have the power.  You're in control.

The "Marriage Makeover" is an online 6-week online training program, developed for people like you who have a husband who has become difficult and don't know what to do about it.

This is the first program to specifically and completely cover how to handle a spouse who has become distant, disrespectful and/or abusive.

“Marriage Makeover” gets results. The lessons are designed to be short enough for your busy life, easy to understand and full of very, very powerful tools to get you feeling better fast.

I'm capping registration at 50 spots, because I want to make sure I can give you the personalized attention, education and support you need to succeed.  Keeping the number of students in the program to a manageable limit means that each individual student has a more profound and more productive experience.

• How to Change Your Husband  There is a proven model for changing your husband's behavior (really ANYONE'S behavior). Learn the theory and strategy along with specific tips to apply to your relationship.
• Why Your Husband Changed  There are four "events" that often result in loving, attentive partners becoming angry, withdrawn, and/or controlling. If one or more of these has happened then you have a powerful insight to understand and piece your love back together.
• What drives your husband to do what he does  Understand the keys of Humand Needs Psychology in order to understand what your husband yearns for and may be looking for outside of your relationship. And it probably ISN'T sex... Give him what he *needs* and he'll be yours forever.
• Medical Conditions and Behavior  How to recognize signs of anxiety, depression and other conditions that might be behind your husband’s behavior AND what you can do about it.
• How to overcome your fear  and build the self-belief necessary to know your worth and stand up for your own needs in the relationship. With courage and confidence the world will respond to you, and you'll feel better inside.
• How to find your joy  even in the most difficult and stressful circumstances.  Learn to connect with your OWN happiness and fulfillment regardless of what your husband says or does. With this power you can overcome hopelessness & frustration, show your husband he doesn't have power over you AND give him a powerful motivator to clean up his act.

Your training will be delivered online by me, Guy Ardito MS CMC. For over 15 years I've helped couples turn around difficult spouses and get their marriage back on track.

The program starts on November 20, 2017, and ends on Dec 31, 2017.

And at every step of the way, you'll have access to me both during live training sessions and between them via email - plus handy templates, checklists and bonus resources to make your progress as swift and effortless as possible.

- Six modules of high-impact, video-based training:  (Value $295)

- Private email access to me during the six weeks of the program (Value $117)

- 4 LIVE Group Calls  (Value $200)

- Exercises and printable hand-outs for each section. (Value $50)

- Personality assessment (Value $30)

- Conflict Style assessment (Value $30)

- 1 Private 50-minute phone or Skype session with me to answer any questions and cover anything about yourself or your relationship (Value $250)

That's OVER $1,000 of value, but you can have it all for just $497.

Why?   To make this totally irresistible, because I want you to get this help and turn your relationship around, turn your love around, and create the life you deserve.

I'd love to welcome you into the Marriage Makeover program.  But first, let me tell you a very quick story about the price of marriage help and divorce.

Divorce is very, very expensive.  You can count on paying $6,000 or more for legal fees, plus the pain of splitting assets, and possibly having to move out of your house, the stress and (if you have them) the impact on your children.

Marriage Therapy ain't cheap, either: typically $150 per session (sometimes double or triple that depending on where you live), and it isn't covered by insurance.  And, most couples see a therapist once per week for at least six months. That's a whopping $3,600.  Worst of all, while some couples get relief many do not.

Plus the incovenience of getting to the therapist's office, which can also mean having to pay for a babysitter.

Meanwhile...

Other online programs for marriage cost between $297 and $697 but include very little live time with the coach, trainer or therapist and no 1:1 time.

And 1:1 time is essential to understanding your particular challenge and giving you the customized support and guidance you need to get your marriage back on track.

Worst of all, studies show that very few people even complete these courses, typically out of frustration because (again) they don't get 1:1 support and understanding.

Bottom line: most people don't get the help they need because they feel it's too expensive, or it won't work, or both.

My "Marriage Makeover" is different.

The "Marriage Makeover" gives you personalized guidance at a very, very affordable price.

After going through the Marriage Makeover you may decide that you want a series of private sessions.  So when you buy the Marriage Makeover I'll give you a special discount AND I'll even credit you the Marriage Makeover purchase price as a special "thank you".  :)